
Hi all, how has your week been? Last week was quite busy here with sports and yard mowing. I had a tennis inter-club match, 18 holes of golf league, epic field mowing, and a cycling bike ride event a couple hours south of us all in one week, and now I’m resting. I must be crazy, lol. I’m no spring chicken. I should’ve taken a photo at the bike event yesterday, but I was full on — trying to go 50km (31 miles) quickly. It went better than expected and I finished third woman in my 50+ age group. My husband did well biking the 100km (62 mile) longer route. And now we’re taking a breather and it’s good that it’s a bit rainy this morning and we’re catching up on things. I’m adding this happy cow picture to ward off any crazy bad news.

I’m reminded at times that when I was working full-time in my 20s, 30s, and 40s I didn’t have time for blogging. It was only in my later 40s when I went part-time did I really have or make any time for it. So I’m impressed by bloggers today who somehow find time when they work full-time and/or are moms to young kids. That’s a lot! I think being mostly retired helps (my husband still works), though retirees are pretty busy too. What about you — did you ever blog while you were working full-time? Or did you start afterwards?

In book news, I see that author Margaret Atwood is coming out with a memoir of sorts on Nov. 4 called Book of Lives. Oh yeah, it’s going to be big in Canada. People who are Atwood fans are already aflutter with the news. I learned about the memoir from the Wordfest book festival here, which plans to host Atwood to come speak about it on Dec. 10. So I’ll gear up for it. I have seen Atwood speak before (she appeared like an ant on the stage as I was in a faraway seat in the balcony), but I heard her quite clearly. The two-time Booker Prize winner is always worth seeing and reading.
Next weekend I plan to post my August preview. Can you believe July is almost over? Ugh. And did you see the New York Time’s article about the man who read 3,599 books and his list? It’s sort of an entertaining read. He’s way more manic than I am about it, yay.
And now for a couple reviews of what I finished lately.
A Marriage at Sea by Sophie Elmhirst / Riverhead / 256 pages / 2025

4+ stars. This is an old-fashioned survival tale, based on a true story about a British married couple, who in 1972 set sail from England in hopes of making it all the way to New Zealand. They were a bit of a different couple, Maurice Bailey was an awkward loner type who had a miserable childhood with his family and didn’t know women particularly well. He was 8 years older than Maralyn, whom he met at age 29 through a mutual acquaintance. She, on the other hand, was an outgoing adventurous type who took to his hobbies of long hikes and boating well and surprisingly said yes to his marriage proposal a year later in 1963. They weren’t traditional in the sense of wanting to settle down with jobs and kids in England but wanted to chuck it all to leave and not come back. They wanted a different kind of life.
So the Baileys had a 31-foot yacht — the Auralyn — built. But for their journey Maurice decided not to have a radio transmitter onboard … he wanted to travel by the stars and be on their own. Maralyn, for her part, couldn’t even swim. Still they didn’t seem too concerned. They were eager to set sail in 1972, making it to Spain and Portugal and the Canary Islands before eventually crossing the Atlantic Ocean and appeared to be having quite a time, but it was later while trying to cross the Pacific that things took a fateful turn. And what an epic ordeal it turns out to be.
I don’t want to say too much of the particulars to give it away, but how had I not heard of this couple and their predicament before?! As a kid of the 1970s in California, I recall Patty Hearst and the Manson murders all too well (but not the British Baileys) and later I became well-acquainted with survival tales of the most direst of circumstances from Sir Ernest Shackleton’s and the other polar explorers’ to the 1972 airplane crash in the Andes (Alive), to Chris McCandless going Into the Wild in Alaska. But in particular, the Baileys’ ordeal reminded me slightly of Lauren Hillenbrand’s book Unbroken about the true tale of Louis Zamperini whose plane crashed into the Pacific in 1943 during WWII leaving him stranded on a raft for a long time. Poor Louis, I felt his agony in the open ocean on every page that I turned. And now I’ve added the Baileys’ story to my collection.
I think because of the book’s title I had thought it would be a survival tale that disintegrated their marriage while at sea. But I assumed wrong. In fact, their marriage is something uplifting in their ordeal that helps and binds them together. Maralyn turns out to be mentally strong and optimistic, whereas Maurice has spells of throwing in the towel and despair. Their yin-and yang combination helps their will to fight. And their tactics are a bit illuminating should you ever become in trouble.
The author, journalist Sophie Elmhirst is interested in this marriage angle of the Baileys’ story: how they fit and worked together — two sort of oddball people and what they manage to do. It kept me engaged with it. And for squeamish folks, it’s not for the light of heart, since raw seafood is fair game when you’re all alone with dwindling supplies in the vast Pacific Ocean. My only quibble with the book … is that the writing style is short and simple and somehow made it feel a bit muted at times. Still I consumed the book quickly, lapping up every detail and committing it to memory — the odd history of the Baileys. Some of it is sort of sad, even later, or kooky, and other parts inspiring. See what you think. It was on my summer reading list as Book #6.
The Life Cycle of the Common Octopus by Emma Knight / 304 pages / 2025

3.75 stars. This is a coming-of-age novel — a genre I often like — about a Canadian girl (Penelope known as Pen) who goes to her first year at university in Edinburgh, Scotland. There she falls in with a group of friends as they navigate young age, school, independence, and their love lives.
She also gets in touch with a friend of her fathers’ — aristocrat Elliot Lennox, a mystery writer — in hopes that he might know something about her divorced parents’ past — what happened with them and what they seem to be not telling her. The Lennox family lives in an old mansion on a rural estate, where Pen is soon visiting as she befriends the entire family, including the swoon-worthy son, Sasha, whom she begins to dream about.
This is a promising debut by a 36-year-old Canadian author … and there was much to like. The author has a lively style with a good vocabulary, and Pen is an empathetic, young protagonist whom you feel for as she’s learning the ropes around school, going out with friends, but not being fully sure of herself, or confident in the love department. Then she meets Sasha who seems dashing and worth it, but is he available or not? She’s curious too about finding out a secret about her parents’ past, which by the end she figures out from her visits with the Lennoxes. And it’s a doozie of a secret.
So I liked much of it, though it’s a novel perhaps a bit too chock full of its varied cast and their particulars. Pen’s best friend Alice comes to narrate some chapters about her affair with a rogue professor, which I didn’t think was really necessary. And Sasha’s mother Christina is delved into quite a bit. To me, it was Pen’s journey and so, I would’ve streamlined these other distractions and plotlines and expanded hers a bit more. Still I think it was promising enough to want to see what Emma Knight will write next. This was Book #7 on my summer list of 15.
That’s all for now. What about you — have you read these and if so, what did you think?








































